CHOICES

– Lawrence I. Miller
 
Choices is a small simple book I have written to show how and why we make choices, either positive of negative. The book has a total of 13 pages starting with the purpose of the book, why I wrote it and how we are exactly where we are supposed to be based on the choices we have made through out our complete life. It explains how our negative choices has controlled our lives, that those choices have come from fear and the cause of the fear is a negative feeling attached to the fear causing us to make the incorrect choice.  How the negative feelings were programmed into our subconscious mind when we were children over some event that emotionally hurt us.  The fear is attached to the negative feeling so we don't experience that hurt feeling again as an adult. Because of that negative feeling which is now a fear we make all the wrong choices so we won't feel the negative feeling. You can look at your making the wrong choices as a protection from getting hurt.
 
The book has a 7 step process as to how to figure out what the feeling is that is attached to the fear which is keeping you from making the incorrect choice.  How to know when we are about to make the wrong choice and then how to eliminate the negative feeling so that in the future we can choose without the fear controlling our choices. 
 
There is also a feeling list within the book to help you discover the feeling you are feeling at the time you are trying to make the choice.  Then last but not least there is a 12 month calendar where you can write your choices down that you made, especially if you have a un-easy feeling about making the choice, you have a doubt, you are anxious, confused or any other or any other experience that may feel like some sort of block.
 
Everyone should learn this process in order to make positive and correct choices in their future. Call me, if you need to talk with someone: 951.970.7868.